Sex and Relationship Therapy in London and Online.

Hi, I’m Zoe and I am a COSRT Certified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist and I am also a Registered Mental Health Nurse with over 18 years experience. Welcome to my Therapy Practice! I offer sex and relationship therapy for individuals and couples both face to face and online.

At The Sex Therapy Space, we wholeheartedly believe that Sex, Intimacy and Relationships are a basic human need and are just as important as any other health need and should be given the same priority! We know how overwhelming these issues can be, so we offer a safe and confidential space to explore and work together to achieve easier communication, better sex and more intimacy!

Therapy can be instrumental in helping you dismantle the barriers that are preventing you from experiencing a truly pleasurable and satisfying sex life and fostering meaningful connected relationships. By addressing underlying concerns and with guidance and tailored approaches you to achieve the sexual and relational fulfilment you've been seeking.

I have a special interest in Cancer and offer low cost sessions for those who have been affected by primary or secondary breast cancer and need some help and support with Sex, Self Confidence, Intimacy, Dating and Relationships.

My Services

  • Vaginismus

  • Dyspareunia

  • Painful Sex

  • Vulvodynia

  • Loss of Sexual Desire

  • Changes in desire/arousal/ drive

  • Unable to orgasm (Anorgasmia)

  • Performance anxiety

  • Erectile Dysfunction

  • Rapid (Premature) Ejaculation

  • Delayed Ejaculation

  • Body Image Issues

  • Sexual Trauma / Abuse

  • Anxieties around sex

  • Sexual Health

  • Sexual Identity

  • Compulsive sexual behaviour

  • Physical illness impacting sex

  • Cancer Diagnosis

Sex Therapy

Relationship Therapy

  • Strengthening your relationship

  • Communication difficulties

  • Frequent arguments

  • Conflicts

  • Changes in sexual desire/arousal

  • Lack of intimacy

  • Mismatched libidos

  • Intimacy/ connection issues

  • Sexless relationships

  • Infidelity / affairs

  • Betrayals

  • Trust issues

  • Financial stress

  • Life transitions - considering/becoming parents, careers, living together.

  • Living together and merging new families

  • Fertility

  • Infertility

  • Child loss

  • Ending a relationship / separation

  • Divorce

Free Consultation

I offer a free 20 minute discovery call to see if therapy is for you and to explore if we are a good fit to work together. There is no obligation, just a chance for you to see how it feels.

My approach to therapy is both humanistic and integrative, meaning I tailor our work to your unique needs and personality. I don't believe in a "one-size-fits-all" solution; instead, I draw from various psychological theories, tools, and techniques to ensure our sessions are as effective and creative as possible. I'm passionate about helping you overcome barriers, enhance communication, and rediscover pleasure and connection. After all, healthy relationships and fulfilling sexual experiences are crucial for our overall well-being.

I often integrate person-centered therapy with psychodynamic theory, exploring how past experiences shape your current thoughts, feelings, and relationships. Attachment theory helps us understand how early relationships influence your life today, and I always maintain a trauma-informed approach. For specific sexual dysfunctions, I might incorporate Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and I sometimes use Gestalt Therapy to help you focus on present feelings.

Beyond my therapy practice, I'm also a Senior Mental Health Nurse with over 18 years of experience in both NHS and private sectors. This extensive background includes supporting individuals through complex mental health challenges, enduring mental illness, and crises, as well as working extensively with Autism and ADHD.

About Me

My Qualifications

  • Adaptive Mentalization Based Integrative Treatment (AMBIT) Anna Freud Centre London.

  • Postgraduate Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapy. LDPRT and Middlesex University. Level 7

  • MSc Clinical Mental Health Sciences Research. University College London. Level 7

  • Clinical Aspects of HIV. University College London. Level 7

  • Qualified Nurse Mentor. Mentorship in Professional Practice. University of Bedfordshire.

  • DipHE Mental Health Nursing. University of Bedfordshire.

My Memberships

  • College of Sex and Relationship Therapists (COSRT)

  • British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP)

  • Nursing and Midwifery Council (NMC)

  • Royal College of Nursing (RCN)

Training

  • Infertility Specialist

  • Rainbow Baby Specialist

  • Safeguarding Adults and Children Level 3

Therapy Fees

At the Sex Therapy Space, I believe therapy should be assessible and you should know exactly what to expect with fees.

Sessions last for 50 minutes and are usually on the same day and time either weekly or fortnightly dependant on need.

I typically recommend starting with six sessions to establish a strong foundation and allowing a trusting therapeutic relationship to develop. After this initial period we will review progress and decide together on whether to continue weekly or move to fortnightly dependant on your needs.

Low Cost Cancer Therapy

@thecancersextherapist

Following my own cancer diagnosis and experience, I am now offering low cost sessions for those who have ever been diagnosed with primary or secondary breast cancer, for individuals and couples therapy with their partners. This includes those now in remission.

I want therapy to be accessible. Cancer does not have to mean the end of a fulfilling sex life, or deep connection. Whether it’s adapting to physical changes, managing the effects of treatment, rediscovering pleasure or rebuilding intimacy after a long period of focusing on survival, I provide a safe and compassionate space to explore what’s possible.

  • Online £80

    In-person £90

  • Online £100

    In-person £110

  • Individual and Couples Online £50

    I offer low cost psychosexual and relationship therapy sessions for anyone who has ever be diagnosed with primary or secondary cancer and their partners.

  • I provide training and teaching in Sex, Relationships and Mental Health. I offer bespoke packages to the needs of companies, establishments and charities.

    Please contact me for further information.

  • I offer mentoring and supervision for mental health nurses on both a one to one and group setting.

    Please contact me for more information.

  • I offer consultancy on all areas relating to sex, relationships, intimacy and mental health.

    Please contact me for further details.

Contact Me

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Useful Links

Dr. Michael Maier - Consultant Psychiatrist - https://nightingalehospital.co.uk/specialist/dr-michael-maier/

Bongiwe Sibanda - CBT Therapist - https://resetminds.co.uk

Beverley Edwards-Metcalfe - CBT Therapist - https://bmtherapy.co.uk

College of Sexual and Relationship Therapy - COSRT - College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists

British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy

London Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy - London Diploma In Psychosexual And Relationship Therapy

NAOS Institute - Executive Coaching Course London, London Therapists, Supervisor Training, Organisational Development

The Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology - The Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology (CICS)

Future Dreams - Future Dreams | In-person and virtual breast cancer support

Breast Cancer Now - We're Breast Cancer Now | Breast Cancer Now

Macmillan Cancer Support - Macmillan Cancer Support | The UK's leading cancer care charity

Samaritans - Contact Us | Samaritans